By JOSEPH TINTLE
Recently high school seniors across America took part in their graduation ceremonies. But if I had the chance to pull them aside, I would have made three points before they moved on with their lives.
POINT ONE: If you want to experience a wonderful life start right now and look out for others. Believe it or not, it’s not all about you; it’s about the other guy. And while some of you are already on that path, a good deal of you need to consider this suggestion. So how can you begin?
Hold a door for someone, anyone.
Say hello to a stranger.
Help anyone in need.
Do what your parents and guardians ask without an argument.
Wake up every morning and say to yourself, “Who can I help today?”
POINT TWO: Read.
Become curious about life. Find areas of interest and learn more about them. Not only will you become more knowledgeable, you will become richer in spirit because you will have something to share in discussion with others.
Don’t read just to bolster your test scores, read to bolster your life. After all, no matter what line of work you eventually pursue you will be dealing with people of all ages, various levels of education and experience. You want to be part of that conversation rather than wishing for that conversation to be over because you have no clue what others are talking about.
So subscribe to a reputable newspaper, read books, and look up words you don’t know. Reading will pay dividends in the future.
POINT THREE: Work hard and do your best.
Work is a four-letter word to some of you, but you might want to consider the advice of President Theodore Roosevelt who once said, “Far and away the best prize that life has to offer is the chance to work hard at work worth doing.”
How many of you are satisfied with just getting by? That’s okay for now. You are still maturing. But the day will come when you realize what your purpose is in life and you will grab it. Only then will you be inspired to give your best effort. You will show up to work on time, all the time. You will stay after hours to smooth out the edges of a project. And you will go home feeling you truly accomplished something that day.
But would it hurt to start doing your best in everything now? Think about it.
And so Class of 2015, find what you would love to do in life and then have a torrid love affair with it for the rest of your days.